March 2020 THE SEX FILES Whenever me and my girlfriend are having sex, she’ll ask me to tickle her. I have always obliged and it seems to make her orgasms very strong. But when I try to ask her about it... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
February 2020 THE SEX FILES The other day I sent my date a nude and they replied that they showed it to a friend they were hanging out with and both of them were turned on. I feel kinda weird about them... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
January 2020 THE SEX FILES I’ve started seeing a new person and I am ready to have sex with them, but I’m kind of nervous. What is a low-pressure way to disclose that I have trauma and that it sometimes... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
December 2019 THE SEX FILES I’m a woman in my late 30s and I think I might be a lesbian. I’ve dated men since high school on and off, but nothing that ever felt serious. Last year I had a month-long... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
November 2019 THE SEX FILES I’m ready to buy a dildo, but when I went shopping for one they all seemed to look like extra large penises and I’m not really into that aesthetic. Are there dildos that are... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
September 2019 THE SEX FILES I just started using a menstrual cup this summer and I really love it. When I used to wear tampons I would have sex with my boyfriend on my period and it was fine. Can I have sex... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
July 2019 THE SEX FILES I’ve been getting coffee from the same barista for four months and they are really cute and we have great banter. In most circumstances, I would say that I have a crush on this... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
June 2019 THE SEX FILES My social scene seems to be all about polyamory and non-monogamy. I have tried those models of relationships and just don’t feel I’m well-suited for them. It’s not like I... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
May 2019 THE SEX FILES SEX SHOP ETIQUETTE GUIDE In previous columns, I’ve talked a bit about how if you are looking for a specific sex toy, a date idea, or need to figure out what kind of lube you’d... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
April 2019 THE SEX FILES I’m a man in a six-month-long heterosexual relationship. My girlfriend has been pushing for sex to last longer and I’m not sure I can handle it. We have sex pretty regularly... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
March 2019 THE SEX FILES I’m a 29 year-old woman and I don’t know if I’ve ever had an orgasm. I’ve been having sex for about seven years and there were times sex felt really good, but I’m not... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
February 2019 THE SEX FILES My name is Lizxnn and I spend a lot of time thinking about desire and bodies and ways to get weird. I teach adult sex-ed classes in person all around New Orleans. I’m excited to... Lizxnn Cobalt Chrome
